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Love Happens

You don't have to be mad to fall in love. Its something that can happen with anyone, anytime. Someone once said to me, "I don't want to fall in love but you know what, I don't know whether I could deny it if someone I have a crush on comes asking for my love." So truly that statement was formed that it suits everyone of us, and I mean everyone.
I have a friend who wanted to be loved. He was proposed by a lot many girls, he accepted one girl's proposal. After a while he got dumped and after 2-3 years of break from love he was again proposed by a girl. that dumb-ass again accepted the proposal. With this girl the relation went a little longer than the last one. But he got dumped again. Again he went into Devdas mode for a year or so. He got proposed by a third girl and, really he was a dumb ass guy, he accepted AGAIN. And guess what, after a year long relationship he got dumped again. He was the biggest fool I had ever seen. But soon that fool did what he should have done a long time ago. He stopped accepting proposals and said that he would propose a girl this time if he feels that way for someone. I was all the time with him watching him, giving him my free advises and suggestions, though I never was in love and had Zero experience. But somehow I could understand people more better than normally people can and I am proud of it. Some of my suggestions worked and soon he was a good looking, single guy who was not available to girls.
But then he met someone on internet and he really fell for that girl. Somehow that girl also fell for him. Till now the girl knew his identity but he didn't know much about her. Soon they started online chatting. And within 3 days of chatting, this guy was so mad in love that went and proposed the girl, the girl took a while and accepted. Their relationship is already past two years and their parents know about it now. Their families are o.k with their marriage. And somehow I am pretty sure that they will get married and live a long happy married life. I am happy for that guy.
So guys, after so many tragedies when this guy finally stopped looking for love, love found him. You don't have to look for it. It will find you. Have patience 'cause guys, LOVE HAPPENS.

Dedicated to a great friend of mine.

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