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With the changing
times and traditions, people now-a-days feel not too happy when somebody visits
unwantedly without prior information. With the fast paced life that we live and
the busy schedules that everyone has, its hard to tend to guests without preparation.
There was a time
when people did not have to worry about everything that came along. They were
limited to their own family and filling its need. But in the current times when
a person does not even own a house, has hardships just even to feed stomachs and
buy medicines for the elderly and sick, its hard to take out time to tend
guests. A man who does not own a house, plans on saving money to buy land and
build his own house in the next 10 years. In the meantime he has to take care
of his parents, fulfill his siblings need, and also has to worry about his job.
With the prices
going sky-high its hard even to complete one's education, find job and on top
of that if a guest comes and plans on staying with you for even a week, You are
bound to get worried.
With that said, it's
also the responsibility of the guest to consider the host's situation and
financial capability to spend on and accommodate an extra person. Guest must
keep in mind that if they have to visit, they must not make plans on staying
for too long and obviously should not plan an event which the host might not be
comfortable with spending on. The guest should not interfere with the hosts
privacy and also should not be the kind that they feel you don't exist at all.
Most of all, being a guest you should not ask the host questions of their
personal matters, for example, job and salary, about the baby to a newly wed
couple, or such matters that they may become uncomfortable wit you.
This is to everyone,
Do not be a unwanted Guest, inform prior to the visit, be happy and
understanding for your hosts and best would be to not stay for long at their
place.
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